Here is Part 2 of our I AM A SURVIVOR feature with A B Wallace.
What helped you through the rough times?
The love of a good man, my husband Walt. The comfort and love our three dogs gave me during this difficult time, and the love of our sweet sun conure. They have always been my strength. They just make me feel like a million dollars no matter how I look or how I feel. The warmth of my family and friends. And laughter. I watched Frasier every night before I went to bed. The episodes just made me laugh and laugh. I felt great and was able to go to bed with a smile on my face.
What have you learned the most during the journey?
I learned the meaning of the word journey as it pertains to my cancer. That it’s whatever you want it to be, that you determine what your journey will be. For me the most important question I had was “how much time do I have?” My journey taught me that it’s not the amount of time one has, but how you use the time you do have. I hope to have many, many good years ahead of me.
How did you feel when you heard the words “remission”? How long have you been in remission?
The first time I heard the word “remission” was a couple of weeks ago from my husband. He was talking to someone on phone and mentioned my cancer was in remission. Funny, I remember hearing the word remission in the past, on tv and in many discussions about cancer, but in my case, the word “remission” never came up. All my treatments were weapons being used against the cancer in hopes of stopping it from returning. I’ve been clear of cancer since my surgery in 2006. There has been no sign of cancer in my body since then. I’m very happy to say I’ve been free of cancer for two and a half years.
Has this battle affected you writing in any way?
Oh, yes. I’ve written very little during this time. I’m not sure how to put it, but I lost that magical world within myself, that world that makes anything possible. My insides were blank sheets of paper I just never wanted to bother with. And I’m still fighting this. It is getting better though. I have started writing again.
What would you advise a newly diagnosed woman if you were given the chance?
I expected the diagnoses and treatments to be devastating, far more difficult than it actually was. Don’t let the cancer take over your life. Instead, live your life even though you have or have had cancer.
What are your new life goals?
My new life goals are to enjoy the time I have with our critters, enjoy the time I have with my hubby, and do everything possible to do this for as long as I can. I’ll write because I love it, and no longer worry about making a career of it. I’ll live my life, and explore what that is with my husband, family, friends, and my lovely critters too. A chi-mix joined our family January of 2008. We adopted her from a rescue organization. Whenever we’ve lost a loved one, we brought a new life into our family. Now we brought a new life in our family to celebrate life. My life. Their lives. And that’s how I’d like us to live, by celebrating it every chance we get.
I would like to thank A B Wallace for taking time to be a part of I AM A SURVIVOR feature. I’m hoping to do this on a monthly basis at first and increase as I get more survivors interviewed. If you are one or know someone who is a survivor of Breast Cancer please contact me.
If you liked A B Wallace’s feature then take the time and pick up a copy of her book VINTAGE BLOOD AND SACRED SCEPTERS. I know you’ll love it. I’m getting a copy myself and plan on loving every page!
Thanks again AB you are one brave Breast Cancer SURVIVOR!